Fostering Independence in Dallas’ Daycares and Childcare Facilities

It is important to help your child gain a sense ofthings they would normally do themselves. 
independence.  This can be especially important inSometimes a child’s burgeoning confidence is
Dallas daycares and other childcare facilities.  Yourbetter supported by your additional comfort and help.
child may feel overwhelmed in such a setting and willPractice Situations with Your Child
need your support to overcome their discomfort. Helping your child find solutions builds independence so
As an important part of your child’sprovide them with appropriate challenges from time
development and growth the development ofto time.  For instance, you can ask them to indentify
independence, learning self reliance, and gaining thepotential problems or dangers and how to avoid
ability to solve one’s own problems.  Here arethem; what might they do to avoid falling on the
some ways to help foster independence and selfplayground or how could they go about completing a
esteem in your child.certain task.  These questions can help them think
Making Choicesabout using their own abilities in specific situations.
Your child’s ability to make choices independently
is crucial in the development of self-reliance andBeing a Part of Your Child’s Independence
self-esteem.  Encourage your child to make choicesWhen your child begins to display a better sense of
by giving your child the opportunity to make choicesindependence, or becomes frustrated or feels a lack
in a safe environment.  However, only give your childof motivation in this regard, it is important to be a
choices when you are able to accept what your childpart of the process.  Share your child’s joys and
decides.  Instead of asking your child if they want toexpress pleasure in their good decisions.  While it is
go to bed, you may ask your child if he or she wouldhelpful and even recommended to give your child
like to brush their teeth before or after a story.pointers as they try out new things, let them learn
Completing Tasksthat they can do things on their own as well.
Help your child to set realistic goals and assist them inSpeak with Your Child’s Caregivers
following through so that they complete their tasks. If your child is in a childcare facility, you can help build
This will help your child gain a personal identity and ayour child’s independence and self-esteem with
sense of accomplishment.  For example, two yeartheir help and support.  Speak to them regarding
olds are able to pick up their own toys, but they willyour child’s progress, make sure you are
need encouragement and help to complete such aencouraging the same behaviors and learn what new
task.skills your child has been mastering at school. 
When Your Child Needs Extra SupportReinforce your child’s growing independence at
While it is important to build your child’shome and remember that even as your child takes
independence, recognize when extra comfort orsteps forward toward self-sufficiency, they will often
support are needed.  When your child is tired or notregress when tired or stressed.
having a good day, your child may need you to do