| Buying gifts and toys for children is not always as | | | | can try to remember what toys you liked when you |
| easy as you would think. How many times have you | | | | were their age - many of the tried and tested toys |
| spent time and money buying a toy only to find that | | | | from your childhood will still be around today in some |
| the child immediately discarded it in favor of the box | | | | shape or form. |
| that it came in? | | | | If all else fails, ask. Speak to friends and relatives to |
| Although it's doubtful that anything will overcome the | | | | see what their kids' favourite toys are to pick up |
| box versus toy dilemma, this article offers six | | | | some helpful ideas. |
| practical tips to help ensure that your carefully | | | | 5 -- Pick a toy that encourages creativity |
| chosen gift becomes a much-loved favourite toy. | | | | Toys that can be taken apart and re-constructed |
| Here we need to offer a word of warning though. | | | | into other shapes or objects encourage children to |
| Unless you have grown up children or are planning | | | | use their imagination and will provide them with hours |
| never to have a family, it's always better to avoid | | | | of play. Just think about how long Lego has been |
| certain types of toys, particularly noisy toys like | | | | around. |
| drums - as it is highly likely that the child's parents will | | | | Play Dough, pens, crayons and sketchbooks are also |
| get their revenge in the future. | | | | popular favourites as yound children love arts and |
| 1 -- Choose toys that don't command the child | | | | crafts activities. |
| Many toys on the market direct children by asking | | | | Dolls, teddy bears and action men encourage children |
| them to press buttons or perform tasks. Yet, such | | | | to create their own stories through role play. |
| toys do little to encourage creative play and children | | | | (Remember to choose a specific Baby teddy bear, if |
| quickly become bored with them once the novelty | | | | buying a gift for a child under one.) |
| has worn off. | | | | 6 -- Keep it simple |
| Good toys usually provide children with a platform for | | | | While complex toys with lots of gadgets, flashing |
| play rather than directing their play. Look for toys | | | | lights and fancy features may look impressive, simple |
| that allow children to use their imagination. Traditional | | | | toys often work best. They are less likely to break |
| toys like tea sets and toy garages are good | | | | and their simplicity encourages the child to use their |
| examples of such toys. | | | | imagination and play. |
| 2 -- Check that more than one child can play | | | | It's also worth setting a budget and sticking to it. |
| While it's good for children to play alone, it's also | | | | Children, especially young children, are rarely |
| important for them to play with others. Check that | | | | impressed by the price of a gift - all they want is |
| the toy encourages social interaction and allows more | | | | something fun to play with. Also, close family and |
| than one child to play at a time, like many board | | | | friends apart, if you buy an expensive gift for a child, |
| games. Even young children can be encouraged to | | | | the parents may feel embarrassed or feel obliged to |
| enjoy simple board games. | | | | spend as much on your child in return, which can lead |
| 3 -- Beware toys that promise brain growth | | | | to feelings of resentment. |
| If the blurb on the box is promising to make your | | | | Follow our top tips for buying toys for kids and I'm |
| child smarter or bilingual - beware. Such claims are | | | | sure you'll find that shopping for gifts for children |
| extravagant and often unfounded. | | | | becomes much more fun. In fact, with our help, |
| 4 -- Use common sense - look and listen! | | | | buying toys for kids becomes child's play. |
| If you have children of your own you will know the | | | | If you're stuck for ideas, why not have a helium |
| type of toys that were hits and also which were | | | | balloon delivered directly to their door -- it's sure to |
| misses. If you don't have any children, maybe you | | | | add a touch of magic to any child's day. |