| Living in 2010, millions of people, especially children, | | | | how to deal with someone else losing a game. This is |
| are playing games on the internet on a daily basis. I | | | | useful in as well your social life as your business |
| believe that this is bad for their personal | | | | career. Could you imagine a colleague crying over |
| development. The solution would be playing games in | | | | losing a client? Exactly, you could not! Could you |
| real life! | | | | imagine your mother crying over a cake that is |
| The problem with playing games on the internet is | | | | burnt? Exactly, you could not! |
| mostly the reason for doing it on the internet and | | | | Nowadays you are in a privileged position if you |
| not in real life. Often heard reasons are boredom, | | | | know how to lose, since there are not a lot of |
| addiction, not having anyone to play games with in | | | | people who now how to take a loss well. If you |
| real life and the many possibilities a computer has, | | | | know what it feels like to lose, you can identificate |
| which you cannot get in the real world. These are | | | | with other people losing and maybe try to come up |
| serious issues, and they are huge civil problems. | | | | with a modern solution: A win-win situation. |
| But I believe that there is a problem which is often | | | | In an online game it would never be possible to |
| forgotten. In a game on the web it is very easy to | | | | achieve a win-win situation. I find it quite hard that |
| quit the game when you are losing and start a new | | | | the youth of today does not learn to make another |
| one. When you are playing with friends or family a | | | | as happy as he is. |
| game in real life, you have your own pride or ego to | | | | The solution is easy. Parents should not allow their |
| defend, and the fact that other people are involved, | | | | children playing games on the computer, but they |
| secures that you do not quit the game when you | | | | should motivate their children to be playing games |
| are about to lose. | | | | with them. There a plenty games who are nice for |
| It is incredibly harming for your personal development | | | | as well children as adults. Make time for this very |
| if you do not know the value of winning and losing. It | | | | important change of lifestyle! This well help the |
| is important to know how to handle with losing, or | | | | personal development of your children. |